I hate this

I Cant stand (after days and days) of fun watching my friends break down.
It in all honesty breaks my heart to watch someone torn between something so much that it causes physical pain. i usually know what to do in situations like this but what do you do when the person you care for wont listen to what you think she should do. sometimes i wonder were guys really put on this earth to make girls like us feel bad about ourselves.....Does anyone else ever wonder this or am i alone in this thought?